Sure Jennifer could have handled the media issue on her own but It was helpful that Marc (mr. privacy) was by her side. It would have been great to see jen tackle this hurdle on her own but she chose to marry again. Being over 30 and not married and without kids is sometimes a scary thing for some women (more so for hispanic women). The pressure that hispanic family members bestow upon you to have a baby is really annoying sometimes! She is a powerful person and we as fans can’t imagine her feeling that way but who knows, maybe she does. She’s always expressed her yearned feelings towards motherhood and family. At times women me included feel that our time for motherhood will run out and we rush into things. I’M NOT SAYING THAT JEN DID THAT I’m just looking at it from another possible angle.

It’s going to be difficult but hopefully the world will see Jennifer the way we her fans see her; for more than just a person that jumps in and out of relationships all the time but instead as an amazing all around entertainer & intelligent buisness womam. I truly think that the media has created this awful image of Jen especially cause she is hispanic. So throughout the years they’ve associated Jennifer with the many relationships and marriages that she’s has had. Drew Barrymore, Julia Roberts, Madonna, and countless other american celebrities have had multiple public relationships with various men and none of those woman have had to suffer the media scrutiny that Jlo has for the same reasons. No one says that Julia is a slut for having multiple relationships throughout the years but on the contrary America LOVES her and she’s treated like a serious actress and she IS a wonderful actress. But on the other hand Jen has accumalating alot of people that dislike her and blame it on the fact that shes a slut cause she’s been with so many men. It’s a double standard and it’s simply ridiculous and unfair

As far as the tatoo; Tatoos are somethings that Marc was into prior to being with Jen so it may be lame for some but for him it’s the norm cause he’s done it a bunch of times. I really don’t think he got it to prove anything to anybody. He’s just always tatooed the name of the people that are closest to his heart. Hopefully he won’t have to get Jen’s name removed like the one he got with Dayanara’s name! I heard it hurts more to get it removed than to get it done.