“JENNIFER LOPEZ is revealing all about her surprise third wedding at last, admitting her new status as MARC ANTONY’s wife has softened up her personality.

The singer/actress appeared on last night’s (23SEP04) PRIMETIME LIVE news show in America, and confessed to interviewer DIANE SAWYER she was “a little nervous”.

Then, she opened up about her June (04) wedding, and vowed her latest trip down the aisle will lead to a lasting romance.

She said, “What do I know about marriage? I think I’ve learned that both people have to really wanna be there.

“It’s how you treat each other when you’re hurt. I think that’s the most important thing - because it’s all great when everything’s fun and great and lovely, but I think in the hard times is when a marriage becomes a marriage or it just falls apart.”

But the biggest shock in the candid chat came when Lopez revealed she’s ditched her tough girl JENNY FROM THE BLOCK image.

She added, “I was always so Bronxy in a way - gutsy and ballsy and ‘I don’t care what anybody thinks…’”

Lopez also confessed she didn’t think she’d ever be happily married after breaking up with BEN AFFLECK earlier this year (04): “There’s always a part of you that doesn’t believe everything once you’ve been through a lot.”

Source: Contact Music